When the Woman is the worker, where is the man?

I will suggest to men of old and young, that the seat on the couch is your damnation.

When a woman is exhausted, it is because the man at the side never saw her as a helper.
When a woman is decisive, it is because the man refused to make a decision.
And when a woman is found, he neither thanks nor shows a form of appreciation.

When is a woman conditioned to be a trusted companion to the point of no decision?